How often do we find ourselves HERE?
You convince yourself to remain happily UNHAPPY because the sex has you addicted. For you, lightning strikes in the same place often and though the road frequently traveled is full of one disappointing act after the next, you simply refuse to cut this person from your life because let us face the fact; THE SEX IS DAMN GOOD!!!
Here is a perfect example….
You come home from a long strenuous day on the job and the person who is sexing you down is just sitting there, collecting dust. They refuse to get a job, help out around the house and or treat you with ANY type of respect but the very second you go to complain about ANYTHING; you are drowning in a sex session that leaves you speechless. It seems that they do nothing more than waste away while thinking of NEW ways to control your body and all you can do is give in to the moment.
Not YOUR example? How about THIS one……
The days all seem to run into one another and the relationship has not been worth a damn for a long time now. The attention that you were given initially, is no more than a distant memory and you feel that you are slowly being replaced by someone else. The only bit of communication that the two of you share is at the top of your voice in the most disrespectful tone but the very moment you go to walk away because you are DONE, you are instantaneously grabbed up from behind; pressed towards a wall, table, floor, bed, car, tree, bench, building (you get my drift) and the sex session goes DOWN!
At this time, you are only THINKING, “Get off of me!” You might even start to say it but before you can utter the word “OFF”……That spot of yours is touched, one way or another and then you melt like soft serve icecream.
STILL not your situation? Wait, does THIS sound familiar…..
You have been in a decent relationship for a few months, maybe even years and everything was GREAT! As of recent, things have changed! Your significant other is no longer the person that you fell for in the beginning. The lines of communication are broken and the sex is subpar at best these days. You have recommended help but they do not seem to care and now you have taken it upon yourself to seek sexual comfort in the arms of another, who OF COURSE (understands that your current situation is complicated) but they willingly SEX you down ANYWAY!
Reality is, GOOD SEX will keep you in a BAD SITUATION for years!
They say, “LOVE does not pay the bills”…This holds weight in SOME cases….Yet we all know that GREAT SEX has been known to not only pay the bills but maintain the lifestyle for some, that they normally would not be able to afford. In retrospect, BAD SEX has been known to end some GOOD RELATIONSHIPS …..(sad but true)…..
“What you will NOT do, someone else will” and THAT is the attitude that breaks the mold but we will save this for another blog.
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